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April 13, 2023January 17, 2025Advice, Dating

What will Black Women Get from Being Moral in an Immoral World?

I recently re-read All About Love by Bell Hooks which is an insightful book where she offers the readers, radical new ways to think about love. Many aspects of the book were insightful to me (I suggest you read it… More

February 17, 2023May 20, 2023Advice, Dating, Desirability

You Must Appear to Have Other Options | Dating in the 21st Century

I recently came across an interview of a Black female dating show contestant who had won the show with a White man however the relationship turned toxic and she expressed that this was her last IR relationship.

February 6, 2023October 4, 2025Advice, Dating

Do WESTERN Black Women Live In A Fantasy World? | Dating

This is a stream of consciousness, feel free to take it or leave it. Nonetheless, I am a part of an online community created by Mahogany Pink and we oftentimes do film studies. We recently did a study of “Joy… More

January 6, 2023September 24, 2023Advice, Beauty, Desirability, Media

I Only Like Pretty Black Girls?

I remember going on a rant on Twitter a few years ago that got me dragged lol: “Why don’t some Black girls understand that women in media should be the best that the race has to offer? It’s literally showing… More

November 12, 2022June 5, 2025Advice, Dating, Desirability, Misogynoir

The Trending Topic: Black Women and Femininity

The way the term “femininity” has been reintroduced into the vocabulary of Black Women is very disingenuous.… More

October 20, 2022October 21, 2022Advice, Media, Misogynoir

Dear Black Women, They’re Not Bringing You with Them | Kanye West on on Drink Champs

I really had to write this post because since making this space, I’ve thrown out a range of statements about Black Men like “they look to White Men to gauge what is valuable” or “they look down on Black Women”… More

August 24, 2022December 31, 2023Misogynoir

Black Manosphere? Why are Black Men so Hateful if Black Women are Race Loyal?

The manosphere is not a Black thing and was actually created by White Men but as some say, when “the world gets a cough, Black people get the flu”. Especially in the West, our ties are very fragile and because… More

July 9, 2022July 28, 2025Advice, Dating, Desirability, Misogynoir, Social Media

Narratives are Ruining Black Women’s Lives | Be Careful About What You Internalize

^ Although this article is not entirely spiritual,  I’ve chosen this bible verse as the cornerstone of this post because in this passage Jesus is basically telling us to be “in” the world but not “of” the world and I think… More

April 19, 2022July 28, 2025Advice, Dating, Desirability

GAME in Dating| The Tools You Need to Bring to The Dating Market as a Black Woman

WATCH VIDEO VERSION OF THIS ARTICLE ALTHOUGH BOTH WORD/VIDEO HAVE EXTRA INFO SO BEST TO ENGAGE WITH BOTH: HERE We’re aware of the saying “she’s got game” which is used to describe women who have success in dating & know… More

March 21, 2022October 4, 2025Advice, Dating

The Importance of Marriage for Black Women | Hyp*rgamy [Part 2]

“Love isn’t enough in a world like this“ When speaking about the importance of marriage for BW, we must talk about hyp*rgamy. The reason I have put an asterisk in the word is because it is a word that should… More

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