Author: OTN
What will Black Women Get from Being Moral in an Immoral World?
I recently re-read All About Love by Bell Hooks which is an insightful book where she offers the readers, radical new ways to think about love. Many aspects of the book were insightful to me (I suggest you read it… More
You Must Appear to Have Other Options | Dating in the 21st Century
I recently came across an interview of a Black female dating show contestant who had won the show with a White man however the relationship turned toxic and she expressed that this was her last IR relationship.
Do WESTERN Black Women Live In A Fantasy World? | Dating
This is a stream of consciousness, feel free to take it or leave it. Nonetheless, I am a part of an online community created by Mahogany Pink and we oftentimes do film studies. We recently did a study of “Joy… More
I Only Like Pretty Black Girls?
I remember going on a rant on Twitter a few years ago that got me dragged lol: “Why don’t some Black girls understand that women in media should be the best that the race has to offer? It’s literally showing… More
The Trending Topic: Black Women and Femininity
The way the term “femininity” has been reintroduced into the vocabulary of Black Women is very disingenuous.… More
Dear Black Women, They’re Not Bringing You with Them | Kanye West on on Drink Champs
I really had to write this post because since making this space, I’ve thrown out a range of statements about Black Men like “they look to White Men to gauge what is valuable” or “they look down on Black Women”… More
Black Manosphere? Why are Black Men so Hateful if Black Women are Race Loyal?
The manosphere is not a Black thing and was actually created by White Men but as some say, when “the world gets a cough, Black people get the flu”. Especially in the West, our ties are very fragile and because… More
Narratives are Ruining Black Women’s Lives | Be Careful About What You Internalize
^ Although this article is not entirely spiritual, I’ve chosen this bible verse as the cornerstone of this post because in this passage Jesus is basically telling us to be “in” the world but not “of” the world and I think… More
GAME in Dating| The Tools You Need to Bring to The Dating Market as a Black Woman
WATCH VIDEO VERSION OF THIS ARTICLE: HERE We’re aware of the saying “she’s got game” which is used to describe women who have success in dating and know how to seduce men. Basically, those women know what makes men insecure… More