They are competing with you- Asian girl speaks on Black Women’s vagina
This was not something I originally thought was worthy to bring attention to, but it highlights several topics I’ve previously discussed which I will reinforce.… More
Category: Advice
The Key that Unlocks Every Door: Self-Esteem
“There’s a secret language shared among black girls who are destined to climb mountains and cross rivers in a world that tells us to belong to the valleys that surround us. – Solange
Notes on ‘I Am That’
I remember reading ‘I Am That’ by Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj and making notes on it a few years ago. I recently rediscovered these notes and found them to be extremely profound. Especially with the whole “being in the world but not of it” narrative… More
What will Black Women Get from Being Moral in an Immoral World?
I recently re-read All About Love by Bell Hooks which is an insightful book where she offers the readers, radical new ways to think about love. Many aspects of the book were insightful to me (I suggest you read it… More
You Must Appear to Have Other Options | Dating in the 21st Century
I recently came across an interview of a Black female dating show contestant who had won the show with a White man however the relationship turned toxic and she expressed that this was her last IR relationship.
Do WESTERN Black Women Live In A Fantasy World? | Dating
This is a stream of consciousness, feel free to take it or leave it. Nonetheless, I am a part of an online community created by Mahogany Pink and we oftentimes do film studies. We recently did a study of “Joy… More
I Only Like Pretty Black Girls?
I remember going on a rant on Twitter a few years ago that got me dragged lol: “Why don’t some Black girls understand that women in media should be the best that the race has to offer? It’s literally showing… More
The Trending Topic: Black Women and Femininity
The way the term “femininity” has been reintroduced into the vocabulary of Black Women is very disingenuous.… More
Dear Black Women, They’re Not Bringing You with Them | Kanye West on on Drink Champs
I really had to write this post because since making this space, I’ve thrown out a range of statements about Black Men like “they look to White Men to gauge what is valuable” or “they look down on Black Women”… More