They are competing with you- Asian girl speaks on Black Women’s vagina
This was not something I originally thought was worthy to bring attention to, but it highlights several topics I’ve previously discussed which I will reinforce.… More
Category: Desirability
You Must Appear to Have Other Options | Dating in the 21st Century
I recently came across an interview of a Black female dating show contestant who had won the show with a White man however the relationship turned toxic and she expressed that this was her last IR relationship.
I Only Like Pretty Black Girls?
I remember going on a rant on Twitter a few years ago that got me dragged lol: “Why don’t some Black girls understand that women in media should be the best that the race has to offer? It’s literally showing… More
The Trending Topic: Black Women and Femininity
The way the term “femininity” has been reintroduced into the vocabulary of Black Women is very disingenuous.… More
Narratives are Ruining Black Women’s Lives | Be Careful About What You Internalize
^ Although this article is not entirely spiritual, I’ve chosen this bible verse as the cornerstone of this post because in this passage Jesus is basically telling us to be “in” the world but not “of” the world and I think… More
GAME in Dating| The Tools You Need to Bring to The Dating Market as a Black Woman
WATCH VIDEO VERSION OF THIS ARTICLE: HERE We’re aware of the saying “she’s got game” which is used to describe women who have success in dating and know how to seduce men. Basically, those women know what makes men insecure… More
Dynamics in Interracial Relationships (Black Female Perspective) | What to Look Out For
In this post, I will be talking about Interracial Relationships from a Black female perspective in terms of why they exist, what to look out for etc. This is just my opinion and almost like a stream of consciousness about… More
Black Women, Dating & Desirability | Explaining Black Women’s Desirability in Dating [Part 1]
WATCH VIDEO VERSION OF THIS ARTICLE: HERE The basis of desirability and why it’s called into question in regards to Black Women usually revolves around us being darker-skinned, our hair, our features and nowadays our personalities/femininity or lack thereof (which… More
