They are competing with you- Asian girl speaks on Black Women’s vagina

If you don’t know the situation, an East Asian girl by the name of Esther who is a regular on a podcast called “Under the Influence” basically said that Black Women have “bigger holes” since Black Men have larger d*cks. Many began labeling her as racist, but I find this unlikely, especially after reviewing some of her social media. It’s very evident to me that this Asian girl was quite smart and was basically selling herself.

Many people are blinded by the concept of femininity but Ester knows, just like I luckily know and have eluded to in my article on desirability & realised when looking closely into Black Women’s desirability in the West that Asian women’s appeal is rooted in Asian men’s lack of masculinity and apparent 2 inch d*cks so men outside their community feel like there’s nothing they have to measure up to and they can please them no matter what size they have. That’s why no matter how poor their features may be according to Western beauty standards or lack of curves; they are still highly desired & at times even praised above White Women. If Asian men had “Big Asian C*cks” then I could almost guarantee that Asian Women’s desirability wouldn’t be high at all. Esther knows this (I feel like it’s mainly Asian Men/Black Women most confused about what makes people more desirable than others) and just wanted to reinforce this idea that Asian women will be satisfied with less because they are t*ghter and are used to less (in Asian men) in the minds of men outside their communities, who are getting more insecure by the day. Unlike Black Women who want to create some type of fake sisterhood with women who look down on them, she like many other non-Black women was willing to throw Black Women under the bus and degrade us in the hopes of being validated by men.

After spending time in the darker corners of the internet, when it comes to Asians as a whole, I know that there is a deep resentment there because they are greatly pained by the fact that in the West, we as Black people are viewed as American on English etc. but they never will be and they do everything in their power to be viewed as Western and so it’s key to remember that there is an envy there.

Also, as I expressed in my misogynoir article: “As Black Women, even though we see the way some people interact with us can be negative in comparison to other races of women, we are still very hyper-visible and influence culture from the way women speak, dress and behave, which can create envy from other races. The way some Non-Black Men are threatened by Black Men is the same way some Non-Black Women are threatened by Black Women because in no way shape or form were we meant to be a threat or any form of competition for what they desire in life (be it beauty, men, education, success, wealth etc). The way some Non-Black Men behave when they see a Black Man taking up space is the way many Non-Black Women are when Black Women are taking up space (*coughs* Gina Rodriguez).  Furthermore, because of the dynamic that exists between Non-Black Women and Black Men, the jealousy of Black Women is pushed to the side to embolden the idea that we are jealous because some Non-Black Women desire Black Men, even though they desire to take our position. Society also sticks the “racism” label on everything an envious Non-Black Woman does but whenever a Black Woman says something negative about a Non-Black Woman, she is bitter/ jealous. Not every Non-Black Woman is racist, many are just jealous especially when they are raised to see themselves above Black Women. Especially with the growth of the Kylie Jenner/ Kim K outlook where they see Black Men as accessories and a way to be cool, they begin to see Black Women as competition and this breeds jealousy… Jordyn Woods learnt the hard way.”

Some even suggested that Esther was giving Jeannie Mai vibes.

Furthermore, many Black Women unfortunately have internalised negative narratives that the world tells us and see themselves in such a low position that they don’t really understand that many non-Black women are envious of us and are regularly competing with us:

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I just hope this little moment taught you how there is no sisterhood with women that look down on you – I’m all for having non-black friends but don’t revere or go out your way for anyone who is not a Black Women. Stop revering their image because they NEVER do the same – enjoy your K-Pop but why advocate for them (male or female!!) to occupy spaces when they hate to see you in certain spaces *coughs in affirmative action*. No hate, just match their energy.

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