They are competing with you- Asian girl speaks on Black Women’s vagina
This was not something I originally thought was worthy to bring attention to, but it highlights several topics I’ve previously discussed which I will reinforce.… More
Author: OTN
The Key that Unlocks Every Door: Self-Esteem
“There’s a secret language shared among black girls who are destined to climb mountains and cross rivers in a world that tells us to belong to the valleys that surround us. – Solange
Notes on ‘I Am That’
I remember reading ‘I Am That’ by Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj and making notes on it a few years ago. I recently rediscovered these notes and found them to be extremely profound. Especially with the whole “being in the world but not of it” narrative… More
What will Black Women Get from Being Moral in an Immoral World?
I recently re-read All About Love by Bell Hooks which is an insightful book where she offers the readers, radical new ways to think about love. Many aspects of the book were insightful to me (I suggest you read it… More
You Must Appear to Have Other Options | Dating in the 21st Century
I recently came across an interview of a Black female dating show contestant who had won the show with a White man however the relationship turned toxic and she expressed that this was her last IR relationship.