The Key that Unlocks Every Door: Self-Esteem
“There’s a secret language shared among black girls who are destined to climb mountains and cross rivers in a world that tells us to belong to the valleys that surround us. – Solange
Category: Dating
What will Black Women Get from Being Moral in an Immoral World?
I recently re-read All About Love by Bell Hooks which is an insightful book where she offers the readers, radical new ways to think about love. Many aspects of the book were insightful to me (I suggest you read it… More
You Must Appear to Have Other Options | Dating in the 21st Century
I recently came across an interview of a Black female dating show contestant who had won the show with a White man however the relationship turned toxic and she expressed that this was her last IR relationship.
Do WESTERN Black Women Live In A Fantasy World? | Dating
This is a stream of consciousness, feel free to take it or leave it. Nonetheless, I am a part of an online community created by Mahogany Pink and we oftentimes do film studies. We recently did a study of “Joy… More
The Trending Topic: Black Women and Femininity
The way the term “femininity” has been reintroduced into the vocabulary of Black Women is very disingenuous.… More
Narratives are Ruining Black Women’s Lives | Be Careful About What You Internalize
^ Although this article is not entirely spiritual, I’ve chosen this bible verse as the cornerstone of this post because in this passage Jesus is basically telling us to be “in” the world but not “of” the world and I think… More
GAME in Dating| The Tools You Need to Bring to The Dating Market as a Black Woman
WATCH VIDEO VERSION OF THIS ARTICLE: HERE We’re aware of the saying “she’s got game” which is used to describe women who have success in dating and know how to seduce men. Basically, those women know what makes men insecure… More
The Importance of Marriage for Black Women | Hyp*rgamy [Part 2]
“Love isn’t enough in a world like this“ When speaking about the importance of marriage for BW, we must talk about hyp*rgamy. The reason I have put an asterisk in the word is because it is a word that should… More
The Importance of Marriage for Black Women | Hyp*rgamy [Part 1]
I support those who forgo marriage because they have no interest in having children. Marriage is not for every woman but for the rest of us who desire children/commitment, I want to take this time to explain to you the… More
Black Love? Why (Western) Black Relationships Aren’t as Successful as We Thought They’d Be
Anyone who is an avid reader of my posts will know my views on relationships: having no racial preference, putting no race of man on a pedestal and engaging with whoever can enhance your life but almost as an outsider… More