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January 3, 2022February 13, 2026Dating, Desirability

Black Women, Dating & Desirability | Explaining Black Women’s Desirability in Dating [Part 2]

Black Women and Desirability

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January 3, 2022November 18, 2024Dating, Desirability

Black Women, Dating & Desirability | Explaining Black Women’s Desirability in Dating [Part 1]

Black Women and Desirability

WATCH VIDEO VERSION OF THIS ARTICLE: HERE The basis of desirability and why it’s called into question in regards to Black Women usually revolves around us being darker-skinned, our hair, our features and nowadays our personalities/femininity or lack thereof (which… More

November 22, 2021September 30, 2022Advice, Misogynoir

The Danger of Caring About What Others Think

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^ I am aware that in this interview Lil Wayne was referring to the BLM movement which is quite funny because many Black Men seem to have “divested” way before Black Women coined the term but I recall Wayne talking… More

November 1, 2021December 15, 2024Advice, Misogynoir

They Don’t Want You to Have Self-Esteem

Black girl confidence

I regularly talk about the phenomena of making Black Women feel less about themselves.… More

September 20, 2021October 9, 2021Guest Blogger, Misogynoir, Spirituality

Guest Post: Energy Vampires and Misogynoir

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THIS POST IS WRITTEN BY A GUEST BLOGGER… More

September 16, 2021November 18, 2024Misogynoir

Why Does Misogynoir Exist? | Explaining The Hate Black Women Get

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Misogynoir is a term coined by the scholar Moya Bailey which means, misogyny that is directed towards Black Women where race and gender both play a role in the bias. She created the term in 2010 to address the misogyny… More

September 1, 2021July 16, 2024Beauty, Desirability

Embrace What Makes Black Women Unique | Beauty & Aesthetics

I was motivated to speak on this topic after watching an old episode of the Real Housewives of Atlanta and Porsha Williams was at a 70’s themed party wearing an afro and I thought to myself, “wow she looks very… More

August 24, 2021September 17, 2025Dating, Misogynoir

Why I Don’t Pedestalize Black Men or ANY Race of Man

TW: I will be discussing a number of TRIGGERING topics so please read when you are in the right frame of mind & please read to the end so you can get the full gist of my mindset. In this… More

May 29, 2021September 8, 2022Desirability, Media

Why Most Black Women End Up Being Picked Last on Love Island

I was inspired to write this blog post because of an Instagram video I saw by the UK based cultural commentator Zeze Millz. In the video, she is questioning why the producers of Love Island don’t send men into the… More

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