Tag: Dating While Black
You Must Appear to Have Other Options | Dating in the 21st Century
I recently came across an interview of a Black female dating show contestant who had won the show with a White man however the relationship turned toxic and she expressed that this was her last IR relationship.
The Trending Topic: Black Women and Femininity
The way the term “femininity” has been reintroduced into the vocabulary of Black Women is very disingenuous.… More
The Importance of Marriage for Black Women | Hyp*rgamy [Part 2]
“Love isn’t enough in a world like this“ When speaking about the importance of marriage for BW, we must talk about hyp*rgamy. The reason I have put an asterisk in the word is because it is a word that should… More
The Importance of Marriage for Black Women | Hyp*rgamy [Part 1]
I support those who forgo marriage because they have no interest in having children. Marriage is not for every woman but for the rest of us who desire children/commitment, I want to take this time to explain to you the… More
Black Love? Why (Western) Black Relationships Aren’t as Successful as We Thought They’d Be
Anyone who is an avid reader of my posts will know my views on relationships: having no racial preference, putting no race of man on a pedestal and engaging with whoever can enhance your life but almost as an outsider… More
Dynamics in Interracial Relationships (Black Female Perspective) | What to Look Out For
In this post, I will be talking about Interracial Relationships from a Black female perspective in terms of why they exist, what to look out for etc. This is just my opinion and almost like a stream of consciousness about… More
Black Women, Dating & Desirability | Explaining Black Women’s Desirability in Dating [Part 1]
WATCH VIDEO VERSION OF THIS ARTICLE: HERE The basis of desirability and why it’s called into question in regards to Black Women usually revolves around us being darker-skinned, our hair, our features and nowadays our personalities/femininity or lack thereof (which… More