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July 9, 2022July 28, 2025Advice, Dating, Desirability, Misogynoir, Social Media

Narratives are Ruining Black Women’s Lives | Be Careful About What You Internalize

^ Although this article is not entirely spiritual,  I’ve chosen this bible verse as the cornerstone of this post because in this passage Jesus is basically telling us to be “in” the world but not “of” the world and I think… More

April 19, 2022July 28, 2025Advice, Dating, Desirability

GAME in Dating| The Tools You Need to Bring to The Dating Market as a Black Woman

WATCH VIDEO VERSION OF THIS ARTICLE ALTHOUGH BOTH WORD/VIDEO HAVE EXTRA INFO SO BEST TO ENGAGE WITH BOTH: HERE We’re aware of the saying “she’s got game” which is used to describe women who have success in dating & know… More

March 21, 2022October 4, 2025Advice, Dating

The Importance of Marriage for Black Women | Hyp*rgamy [Part 2]

“Love isn’t enough in a world like this“ When speaking about the importance of marriage for BW, we must talk about hyp*rgamy. The reason I have put an asterisk in the word is because it is a word that should… More

March 21, 2022July 11, 2023Advice, Dating

The Importance of Marriage for Black Women | Hyp*rgamy [Part 1]

I support those who forgo marriage because they have no interest in having children. Marriage is not for every woman but for the rest of us who desire children/commitment, I want to take this time to explain to you the… More

February 21, 2022December 3, 2022Advice, Dating

Black Love? Why (Western) Black Relationships Aren’t as Successful as We Thought They’d Be

Anyone who is an avid reader of my posts will know my views on relationships: having no racial preference, putting no race of man on a pedestal and engaging with whoever can enhance your life but almost as an outsider… More

January 23, 2022September 17, 2025Advice, Dating, Desirability

Dynamics in Interracial Relationships (Black Female Perspective) | What to Look Out For

Why Interracial Couples Exist

In this post, I will be talking about Interracial Relationships from a Black female perspective in terms of why they exist, what to look out for etc. This is just my opinion and almost like a stream of consciousness about… More

November 22, 2021September 30, 2022Advice, Misogynoir

The Danger of Caring About What Others Think

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^ I am aware that in this interview Lil Wayne was referring to the BLM movement which is quite funny because many Black Men seem to have “divested” way before Black Women coined the term but I recall Wayne talking… More

November 1, 2021December 15, 2024Advice, Misogynoir

They Don’t Want You to Have Self-Esteem

Black girl confidence

I regularly talk about the phenomena of making Black Women feel less about themselves.… More

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